There's NO "HIM" v. HER"!

…
"'DUDE'ism" is a way-of-LIFE.
It's a "state-of-BEING".
There are NO "GENDER-lines".
You've either GOT IT, or you DON'T.

(… "Worse comes to worst",
"Ah, fuck it, 'Dude'.  Let's go BOWLING.")

(… --'The Big Lebowski')