Be MORE assertive/PRO-creative!

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"YOU create your OWN destiny!"

"There are TWO sides to (EACH and) EVERY coin."

(--Two-Face, 'The Dark Knight')

These--in MY case--UNFORTUNATE but TRUE quotes kinda "STING".

(… The character--"TWO-Face"--reminds me of
Robert Frost's GREAT poem,,

'The Road Not Taken':)

"Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,

And sorry I could not travel both

And be one traveler, long I stood

And looked down one as far as I could

To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,

And having perhaps the better claim,

Because it was grassy and wanted wear;

Though as for that the passing there

Had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay

In leaves no step had trodden black.

Oh, I kept the first for another day!

Yet knowing how way leads on to way,

I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh

Somewhere ages and ages hence:

Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—

I took the one less traveled by,

And that has made all the difference."

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